| Little Known Dating
tips, Secrets and Dating Mistakes…
by John Alanis
Little Known Dating tips, Secrets and Dating Mistakes…
I hear it over and over—“It was going so great,
and then she disappeared on me… why? What happened—we
were having such a great time together. I’m tired of
this happening—I want to date sexy women, but I want
them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?”
Yes, I do. Every time I talk to a guy who tells
me this, I discover he’s making the exact same mistakes
most guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully
dating sexy women. So, I give him some dating tips to skyrocket
his success with sexy women. Here are the most common ones:
Dating tip #1: Don’t date. Yes, that’s
right—don’t date. Think about a traditional “date”—it’s
full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain
sucks. What do you do on a “traditional date?”
Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, she doesn’t return your
calls. Or you have drinks, and try to “make your move,”
and we all know where that ends up. Much better (and cheaper)
to meet for coffee—it’s fun and relaxed with none
of the normal dating expectations.
Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the
more she’s attracted to you. Most guys try to impress
sexy women, or “lay a rap” on them. Sexy women
have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself,
shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest,
she’ll begin to wonder why you’re not slobbering
all over her. She’ll want to discover more… now
you’re a challenge, and sexy women love challenging
guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one. This is a HUGE dating
tip.
Dating tip #3 Be a “naughty little boy.”
Another big dating tip. Remember the “class clown”
in elementary school—the guy who was “cool and
funny” all at the same time? When you’re talking
to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments, the
kind that leave them thinking, “I can’t believe
he just said that… but I like it.” This shows
sexy women you’re NOT impressed by their looks, that
you need to see more. This is so different from what they’re
used to they can’t help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize
the importance of this dating tip.
Dating tip #4 Avoid all canned pick up lines,
“laying a rap,” or any type of “acting.”
Sexy women have heard it all before, and as soon as you spout
one, you’re instantly a JAG (just another guy). And
JAG’s don’t get sexy women—remember this
dating tip!
Dating tip #5 Sexy women are approached and
hit on 20 to 30 times a day. This is their world—to
get into it, you have to be different from the 20 guys who’ve
already talked to her. (see Dating tip #3 for how to be different
to sexy women).
Dating tip #6 Look out for her tests. Sexy women
(indeed, all women) will test you to see if you’ll stand
up to them. If you can’t stand up to her, you can’t
stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that’s
a test—and a perfect opportunity to be a “naughty
little boy” (see Dating tip #3). Say something like,
“What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy
ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with
me. I like sexy women who buy me things!” This is said
in a playful—yet firm—manner that lets her know
you’re onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives
sexy women wild with desire. Very important dating tip.
Dating tip #7 Date multiple sexy women at once,
and make sure the others know about it. Sexy women love a
man who is attractive to other sexy women, and will compete
to “win you.” (Here’s another dating tip:
for proof of this, read any good romance novel). If you want
to settle down, you can choose one, but she will always know
you’re desired by other sexy women—and in a strange
way, this creates even more attraction for you. This dating
tip really is a secret, but it works very well with sexy women.
OK, guys, that’s it for this article.
Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and
secrets to put to use, but if you pay attention to these dating
tips, you’ll be a heckuva lot more successful with sexy
women. Now, go re-read all the dating tips!
On with the fun…
-John Alanis, Dating Tips Master “The
King of Let ‘em Come to You”
Want more dating tips? To discover how
to be successful with sexy women, and for more great dating
tips, see www.womenapproachyou.com
Keywords: dating, dating tips, sexy women
About the Author
John Alanis, Austin, TX, US
artsteel@flash.net
http://www.womenapproachyou.com
About the author: John Alanis is the author of “Secrets
of Natural Attraction: How to Get Desirable, Beautiful Sexy
women to Chase You.” He also publishes a daily “politically
incorrect attraction and dating tips” newsletter that
reveals how to get desirable, beautiful sexy women to approach
men for a date first, no matter your looks, age or income.
You can subscribe to John’s daily “sexy women
approach you secrets” by going to www.womenapproachyou.com
Upon subscription, John immediately sends you five free “how
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